You could lose everything.
The discovery of infidelity, sexual addiction, or pornography addiction changes everything.
What felt imperfect but safe enough now feels poisonous and uncertain.
Whether you are realizing that you have a problem with sexual behavior that is bigger than you would like to admit, or you are the partner or spouse of someone who has been keeping sexual secrets from you…
You see it now and it’s overwhelming.
Nothing in your life to this point has prepared you for…
… the terror.
… the confusion.
You are on the edge of a series of decisions about yourself and your relationship
that will change your life forever.
Don’t take your chances with therapy that just feels ‘good enough.’
The relationships that you stand to lose now are far too valuable for you to just hope you are getting what you need to heal yourself and repair the damage.
There are a thousand and one things that bring a person to the point where they would betray the people that they love with sexual secrets.
Catch-alls and cookie-cutter approaches often miss the critical pieces of the problem and provide temporary relief or simply resolution from the crisis at best.
Surviving crisis-to-crisis isn’t as good as life gets.
Being minimally satisfied in your relationships is not the path to a life you really love being a part of.
Do you want your therapist to see and treat your problem, or to know and help you?
You’ve come to the right place.
Addiction, infidelity, and betrayal are serious issues with long-lasting consequences, all the more reason to make sure you feel like a valued and respected human being throughout your healing process.
You have a lot of growing and changing ahead of you. And that isn’t going to happen if you don’t feel safe with the people you choose to help you.
This is the right place if you respond positively to
compassion.
My clients are humans and humans make mistakes.
You deserve kind help in rebuilding from the wreckage of choices you made, or that were made for you.
Judgement from others has no useful place when you are torn whether to stay or go, so you’ll find understanding and room to be uncertain about what to do next when you work with me.
This is a place where you can ask hard questions.
Questions like,
“How did this happen?”
“How do I make sure this doesn’t happen again?”
“Do I still want the life I thought I had?”
“What does this mean about me?”
“What does all of this mean about my marriage?”
Asking questions means you are curious, and curiosity is
at the heart of deep healing and lasting change.
Let me help you step into curiosity about yourself
without being afraid of what you will find.
You found the right therapist…
… if you need something different from what you’ve tried in the past.
Many approaches to addiction and infidelity treatment are informed by long-standing conventions and someone’s best guess more than they are informed by knowledge of what actually works in healing and change.
We’ll use what works adjusted to your specific needs and the nuances of your relationship. What you are about to undertake is far too important to leave it to guess work, a rush-job, or chance. Take a definite step in the direction of healing today.